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Saturday, October 08, 2005

The pesky kind

Daniel, the cute coffee boy that came along with the birth of this blog, has been on my case a bit about meeting up again, and again, and again, and again. I thought not to encourage him anymore, because I only know this kind of boy too much - they want relationships and somehow think that they shall be the hero to make me settle down. It gets very tiring trying to get out of those tangles, so I try not to get into them anymore. Unfortunately, the cute sex thing often gets in the way and I forget. It's hard to tell just from looking at them anyway.

Well, he's been writing long emails of the literary sort - training from university days, no doubt. And sending SMSes that try to be endearing and cute.

I finally rang him up and told him it ain't gonna work, darling, find someone else, though in kinder words. So he's now set about pestering me to find him a girl because he's tired of being lonely and "just wants to have that nice feeling of being in love again."

What am I now? The relationship guru? I told him I'd keep an eye out - so if anyone knows of a girl who's just as keen as him on dating-steady, please let me know and I'll set you up. It'll be the only sure thing for weaning him off from texting me all day along.

Anyhow, apologies for being such a bitch. I know people just want to be loved and all that but I don't understand why they think I'm the one to love them.

As a breather, am off to an evening at La Bodega with old friends who don't ask anything of me but drinks and giant bear hugs. Sometimes it's nice not to have to bother with boys (or even sex) at all.

3 Comments:

  • interesting blog... reminds me what good sex is about, keep on writing, you have someone reading your blog out here.

    By Anonymous KopiOh, at 8:40 PM  

  • Frustrating isn't it? It's either feast or famine. Why can't it all be easier to find what we need?

    By Blogger SK, at 9:05 AM  

  • whmm... good way of putting it.... am I on sex diet then?!?! ;-)

    By Anonymous oh.kopi@gmail.com, at 11:04 AM  

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